'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton
Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?
In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:
· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
· Break negative cycles and patterns
· Handle your own and your child's feelings
· Understand what different behaviours communicate
Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.
##真的希望我父母读过…babies and children are people,not objects or projects,虽然所有大人都曾经是孩子,可惜很少大人会记得
评分##这本书主要说的是感情 创建一个怎么样的家庭环境,怎么样去沟通。说的都是感情 包容回应,好好沟通。正视情绪,正视难以表达的情绪。 让自己被影响,响应他人的期待自我不会消失。自我会一同成长 不要顾忌去表达情绪,承认自己的感受、偏好和其中的不确定性 原谅孩子原谅自己。 我非常不解的一点就是:管教孩子要温和而严厉,但是却不要以“事实”为基准要表达“感受”。大概以后可以看看别的育儿书找找这方面的论述。 语言非常易懂,词汇量不大,感觉四级就够了
评分##这本书主要说的是感情 创建一个怎么样的家庭环境,怎么样去沟通。说的都是感情 包容回应,好好沟通。正视情绪,正视难以表达的情绪。 让自己被影响,响应他人的期待自我不会消失。自我会一同成长 不要顾忌去表达情绪,承认自己的感受、偏好和其中的不确定性 原谅孩子原谅自己。 我非常不解的一点就是:管教孩子要温和而严厉,但是却不要以“事实”为基准要表达“感受”。大概以后可以看看别的育儿书找找这方面的论述。 语言非常易懂,词汇量不大,感觉四级就够了
评分##前几章写的心理很棒,后面就是育儿了,我对这个完全不感兴趣。
评分##Baby is body and all feelings. Synchronize your breath with your baby. And, always be the container for their emotions.
评分##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.
评分##很好看!用词简单,容易读,有很多例子和简短的有意义的句子。很有启发性,例如关系是一切的基础。就是这本书怎么这么短呢?
评分##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.
评分##可能在经历过咨询后,这本书里的内容才懂得更多。
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