具体描述
Our earliest experiences shape our lives far down the road, and What Happened to You? provides powerful scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand.
“Through this lens we can build a renewed sense of personal self-worth and ultimately recalibrate our responses to circumstances, situations, and relationships. It is, in other words, the key to reshaping our very lives.”―Oprah Winfrey
This book is going to change the way you see your life.
Have you ever wondered "Why did I do that?" or "Why can't I just control my behavior?" Others may judge our reactions and think, "What's wrong with that person?" When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves; holding ourselves and those around us to an impossible standard. It's time we started asking a different question.
Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
Here, Winfrey shares stories from her own past, understanding through experience the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma and adversity at a young age. In conversation throughout the book, she and Dr. Perry focus on understanding people, behavior, and ourselves. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future―opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.
用户评价
##非常科学系统的分析了trauma以及影响，不像一般的self-help书只给可以简单复制的小帖士。最后一段直接给我听哭了。
评分##很容易读，也很容易懂，但是实践需要努力。
评分##关于创伤应对机制的图解、说明和后续（如何）通过人际联系（陪伴、交往、咨询 etc）重建反应模式比较有意义，案例也好。将困境乃至行为特点、性格缺陷归咎于创伤（thesis）本身并不新鲜。
评分简体版即将上市，大家对书名有什么建议吗？
评分##前本部关于developmental trauma的neurobiology 太实用了，实例也很有力。后半部关于response/intervention貌似有些redundant且草草了事泛泛而谈的感觉
评分##谢谢你们俩，一是分享给我你的故事，Winfrey；二是告诉大家，别再用what's wrong with you的眼光去看人，而是想想祂经历了什么（艰巨）；三是告诉伤心的人，What happened TO you is also what happened FOR you.
评分##喜欢的作者，有新意的写作方式。把trauma对人一生的影响说得更加清楚了，有很多影响深刻的片段和金句。奥普拉的故事和串联也恰到好处。其实非常推荐新父母看，有大段大段内容都在说婴幼儿时期的关系对发展的重要性。
评分##很容易读，也很容易懂，但是实践需要努力。
评分##关于创伤应对机制的图解、说明和后续（如何）通过人际联系（陪伴、交往、咨询 etc）重建反应模式比较有意义，案例也好。将困境乃至行为特点、性格缺陷归咎于创伤（thesis）本身并不新鲜。
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