An essential exploration of why and how women's sexuality works--based on groundbreaking research and brain science--that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.
Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a "pink pill" for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never be the answer--but as a result of the research that's gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women's sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all.
The first lesson in this essential, transformative book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others' experiences. Because women vary, and that's normal.
Second lesson: sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman's arousal, desire, and orgasm.
Cutting-edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman's sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create for yourself better sex and more profound pleasure than you ever thought possible.
And Emily Nagoski can prove it.
##Female orgasm is so fascinating
评分##Everyone needs to read it!
评分##i find that it is so important for women to learn more about sex and themselves. sex is such a sensitive but yet interesting topic...the most important message from this book is: everyone is normal, your vag looks totally normal!
评分##i find that it is so important for women to learn more about sex and themselves. sex is such a sensitive but yet interesting topic...the most important message from this book is: everyone is normal, your vag looks totally normal!
评分##当老师的人循循善诱写出来的书……换句话说,墨迹。有些fun facts, dual control is new, nothing life changing though
评分每个女性都该读读这样的书。Love your body. Love your genitals. 如果文笔再好一点再简洁些就更好了。感觉前面两三章比较有insights, 后面跳着读了读,总结起来就一句话,turn on your ons, turn off your offs. 对女性来说 context 和心理状态比什么都重要。
评分##Hey I think I’m asexual (or at least demisexual) and I can’t be more okay with it, even though I love my partner and I probably still masturbate once a month. Thank you :))
评分##Such a powerful, insightful and loving book. Our genitals are exactly like us, perfect, beautiful and normal.
评分##一本性爱指南,每个人性欲望不同,环境极大影响性生活,压力会毁灭性生活
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